Showing newest 23 of 68 posts from September 2009. Show older posts
Showing newest 23 of 68 posts from September 2009. Show older posts

September 30, 2009

Friends Forever

The man slowly looked up. This was a woman clearly accustomed to the finer things of life. Her coat was new. She looked like she had never missed a meal in her life. His first thought was that she wanted to make fun of him, like so many others had done before.    
"Leave me alone," he growled...
To his amazement, the woman continued standing. She was smiling -- her even white teeth displayed in dazzling rows. "Are you hungry?" she asked.
"No," he answered sarcastically. "I've just come from dining with the president. Now go away." The woman's smile became even broader.  Suddenly the man felt a gentle hand under his arm.    
"What are you doing, lady?" the man asked angrily. "I said to leave me alone.
Just then a policeman came up. "Is there any problem, ma'am?" he asked..
"No problem here, officer," the woman answered. "I'm just trying to get this man to his feet. Will you help me?"
The officer scratched his head.  "That's old Jack. He's been a fixture around here for a couple of years. What do you want with him?"
"See that cafeteria over there?" she asked. "I'm going to get him something to eat and get him out of the cold for awhile."
"Are you crazy, lady?" the homeless man resisted. "I don't want to go in there!" Then he felt strong hands grab his other arm and lift him up.  "Let me go, officer. I didn't do anything."
"This is a good deal for you, Jack," the officer answered. "Don't blow it."
Finally, and with some difficulty, the woman and the police officer got Jack into the cafeteria and sat him at a table in a remote corner. It was the middle of the morning, so most of the breakfast crowd had already left and the lunch bunch had not yet arrived. The manager strode across the cafeteria and stood by his table.
"What's going on here, officer?" he asked.  "What is all this, is this man in trouble?"
"This lady brought this man in here to be fed," the policeman answered.
"Not in here!" the manager replied angrily. "Having a person like that here is bad for business."
Old Jack smiled a toothless grin. "See, lady. I told you so. Now if you'll let me go. I didn't want to come here in the first place."    
The woman turned to the cafeteria manager and smiled. "Sir, are you familiar with Eddy and Associates, the banking firm down the street?"    
"Of course I am," the manager answered impatiently. "They hold their weekly meetings in one of my banquet rooms."
"And do you make a goodly amount of money providing food at these weekly meetings?"
"What business is that of yours?"
I, sir, am Penelope Eddy, president and CEO of the company."
"Oh."
The woman smiled again. "I thought that might make a difference." She glanced at the cop who was busy stifling a giggle. "Would you like to join us in a cup of coffee and a meal, officer?"
"No thanks, ma'am," the officer replied. "I'm on duty."
"Then, perhaps, a cup of coffee to go?"    
"Yes, ma'am. That would be very nice."
The cafeteria manager turned on his heel, "I'll get your coffee for you right away, officer."
The officer watched him walk away. "You certainly put him in his place," he said.    
"That was not my intent. Believe it or not, I have a reason for all this."  
She sat down at the table across from her amazed dinner guest She stared at him intently. "Jack, do you remember me?"
Old Jack searched her face with his old, rheumy eyes "I think so -- I mean you do look familiar."    
"I'm a little older perhaps," she said. "Maybe I've even filled out more than in my younger days when you worked here, and I came through that very door, cold and hungry."
"Ma'am?" the officer said questioningly.  He couldn't believe that such a magnificently turned out woman could ever have been hungry.
"I was just out of college," the woman began. "I had come to the city looking for a job, but I couldn't find anything.  Finally I was down to my last few cents and had been kicked out of my apartment. I walked the streets for days. It was February and I was cold and nearly starving. I saw this place and walked in on the off chance that I could get something to eat."
Jack lit up with a smile.  "Now I remember," he said. "I was behind the serving counter. You came up and asked me if you could work for something to eat. I said that it was against company policy."
"I know," the woman continued. "Then you made me the biggest roast beef sandwich that I had ever seen, gave me a cup of coffee, and told me to go over to a corner table and enjoy  it. I was afraid that you would get into trouble. Then, when I looked over, I saw you put the price of my food in the cash register I knew then that everything would be all right."
"So you started your own business?" Old Jack said.
"I got a job that very afternoon. I worked my way up.  Eventually I started my own business that, with the help of God, prospered." She opened her purse and pulled out a business card. "When you are finished here, I want you to pay a visit to a Mr. Lyons. He’s the personnel director of my company.
I'll go talk to him now and I'm certain he'll find something for you to do around the office." She smiled.  "I think he might even find the funds to give you a little advance so that you can buy some clothes and get a place to live until you get on your feet.
If you ever need anything, my door is always opened to you."
There were tears in the old man's eyes. "How can I ever thank you?" he said.
"Don't thank me," the woman answered. "To God goes the glory.
Outside the cafeteria, the officer and the woman paused at the entrance before going their separate ways. "Thank you for all your help, officer," she said. "On the contrary, Ms. Eddy," he answered. "Thank you. I saw a miracle today, something that I will never forget. And...And thank you for the coffee."    
Have a Wonderful Day. May God Bless You Always.
And don't forget that when you "cast your bread upon the waters," you never know how it will be returned to you.
God is so big He can cover the whole world with his Love and so small He can curl up inside your heart.

When God leads you to the  edge of the cliff, trust Him fully and let go, only 1 of 2 things will happen,  either He'll catch you when you fall, or He'll teach you how to fly! 'The  power of one sentence! God is going to shift things around for you today and  let things work in your favor. If you believe, send it. If you don't believe, delete it. God closes doors no man can open & God opens doors no man can  close.. If you need God to open, some doors for you...send this on.  Have a blessed day and remember to be a blessing...  

My Weeks Choice

This week I am going to write about : How I met my best friend. 


I met her when I came in for a job interview.  I was unemployed for about 2 months and this was basically the only interview that I had the whole time.  The funny thing about this interview is when I left I knew I had gotten the job with out even her telling me that I got it.  Later that day I got a call for a second interview.  That interview was more stressful because I was meeting with Misti and the owner of the company.  That night I got a call and was told that I didn't get the job.  I was totally bummed because I thought for sure that I had gotten it.  The next morning I got a call from Misti and was told that they had changed their minds and offered me the job.  I was super excited!!!!  From the very first I always felt at ease around her.  I let her in on some things in my life faster than most people get in.  In fact at the point she probably knows more about than anyone else in my life does.  We are now more like sisters than anything else and some how we make the whole her being my boss thing work.  I mean we have disagreements but we always figure it out!  We usually don't go to long with out talking that is for sure.
That is how I met my best friend.

Prompts For This Week

he Prompts:

1.) How did you meet your best friend?
(inspired by Kati from Country Girl, City Life)

2.) What are you feeling guilty about? or Memories of your childhood home.
(inspired by Josie from Sleep Is For The Weak)

3.) Tell why you are ecstatic "The one that got away" got away.
(inspired via twitter by Jay from Halftime Lessons)

4.) Have you found your bliss? What path did you take to get there? or are you still searching)
(inspired by Carma from Carma Sez)

5.) Create a conversation between one of these three couples:
(inspired by myself)

Thankful

So I think I am going to post things that I am thankful for.  I think I have been to negative lately and things haven't been going that great lately.  So here it goes.
  • My husband
  • My Friends
  • My Kids-Elinore and Sylvia
  • My job-even though it totally sucks some days
  • My family-When they are being crazy and freaking out over nothing
  • Being able to walk
  • Having health insurance
  • Having car insurance
  • Being alive (well most days anyway)
  • Having people that care about me and are willing to do anything to help me out when I need it most
  • Our troops that are fighting in far away places so that people can enjoy the freedoms that we have here that are taken for granted by most people
  • Being able to speak was is on my mind and not have to watch it
  • Living in America
  • Blogger
  • Facebook - most days when it will let me play Mafia Wars without give me errors all the time
  • Any stores to shop at
  • The internet
  • Computers
Well that is all I can think of right now but If I think of more I start a new list.

September 29, 2009

How Was I Born?

The little boy goes to his father and asks "Daddy, how was I born?"  The father answers, "Well, son, I guess one day you will need to find out anyway! Your Mom and I first got together in a chat room on Yahoo.  Then I set up a date via e-mail with your Mom and we met at a cyber-cafe.  We sneaked into a secluded room, where your mother agreed to a download from my hard drive.  As soon as I was ready to upload, we discovered that neither one of us had used a firewall, and since it was too late to hit the delete button, nine months later a little Pop-Up appeared that said: 
Scroll down...You'll love this ...

 
                               "You got Male!"

Cute Story


No one believes seniors . . . Everyone  thinks they are senile.  

An Elderly couple was celebrating their sixtieth anniversary. The couple had married as childhood sweethearts and had moved back to their old neighborhood after they retired.

Holding hands they walked back to their old school. It was not locked, so they entered, and found the old desk they'd shared, where Andy had carved 'I love you, Sally.'
On their way back home, a bag of money fell out of an armored car,  practically landing at their feet Sally quickly picked it up, but not sure what to do with it, they took it home. There, she counted the money-- fifty-thousand dollars.
Andy said, 'We've got to give it back.'
Sally said , 'Finders keepers.' She  put the money back in the bag and hid it in their attic.
The next day, two FBI men were canvassing the neighborhood looking for the money,  and knocked on the door.
'Pardon me, but did either of you find a bag that fell out of an armored car yesterday?'

Sally said, 'No.'

Andy said, 'She's lying. She hid it up in the attic.'
Sally said, 'Don't believe him, he's getting senile.'
The agents turn to Andy and began to question him.
One says:  'Tell us the story from the beginning.'
Andy said, 'Well, when Sally and I were walking home from school yesterday.'
The first FBI guy turns to his partner and says, 'We're outta here.'  

September 28, 2009

Happy Fall



Being a good person is like being a pumpkin. God lifts you up, takes you in, and washes all the dirt off of you. He opens you up, touches you deep inside and scoops out all of the yucky stuff -- including the seeds of doubt, hate, greed, etc. Then He carves you a bright new smiling face and puts His light inside of you to shine for all the world to see. This was passed on to me from another pumpkin. Now, it is your turn to pass it on to a pumpkin of your choice. I liked this enough to send it to all the pumpkins in my patch.


Have A Happy Fall!

LOL

I just had a call from a Charity asking me to donate some of my clothes
to the starving people throughout the world.

I told them to F--- off!!



Anybody who fits into my clothes isn't starving!!
Just got this e-mailed to me.  This is how I feel about it right now!

Try This

Try to remember this EVERY TIME you have
to talk to a customer service representative
and you cannot understand them.  I did not
know that we could do this, but I sure am
going to try it.  Help bring jobs back to the
U.S.A.   Ask for an American!
************************************************************


How to save some American jobs and we can help!



Hi Everyone,

I want to share with you some great information that I found out purely by accident. I believe it can also save and create jobs in America while giving people better customer service.

So how many times have you called a companies service phone line and found that the rep. can barely speak English? Once with a major mortgage company it was so bad I demanded to speak with someone who spoke English. Right at that moment I broke the code, the secret password for customer service.

Come to find out that every American company using overseas operators must transfer you to an American rep. by saying......

" I want to speak to a representative in America ".

(Don't take no for an answer on this)


This was confirmed by the American rep. that they must transfer you after that request. I've tried it on a half a dozen major companies including cable, bank, phone and mortgage companies. It works every time and I actually get my issues taken care of.

Climbing Trees

Tree 5
Sylvia has learned to climb trees! She is all grown up now.  This morning while I waiting for my ride I was helping her climb the big tree's we have in our front yard.  It is sad yet exciting to see the girls become cats and get to do what most cats do all the time.  I am so proud of them!  Pretty soon they won't even need me anymore.  This weekend they also brought home their first catch!  They left it for me on the rug by the front door.  They were so proud of themselves!  Sylvia has also been the hunt for any fly that dares to come in the house.  She will kill them and then leave them where ever see killed them at.  She is becoming quite the little hunter.  Only problem is that she is scared of birds and mice.  Guess she won't be a good mouse hunter for me.  Oh well I can't have everything!  She also loves to kill spiders! 

September 27, 2009

Elinore's New Sleeping Spot


This is where I found Miss Elinore this afternoon!  Apparently her new favorite sleeping spot is in with my dirty clothes.  She is the strangest cat that we have ever had.  She is always doing something weird or screwy that is for sure.  She must like how dirty clothes feel that is for sure.  I am worried about what is going on in her head at times.  At least she is safe and happy!

Lazy Sundays

Well it is Sunday and I am totally bored because I can't do my usual shopping stuff cause I am with out a car!  So I am totally bored.  I have update my blog with all of my e-mails from the week.  So there is alot of new things to read!  I try and post things that made me smile through out the week!  Hopefully it will make all of you smile like it made me smile!  Hope you all have a great Sunday and I will try and post again sometime this week!  It is hard to post at work anymore because of my boss's and what not but I will try to post a little something everyday!  I am trying to get better about posting updates on my and not just e-mails.

People @ Wal-Mart


Those shoes are not blue nor are they suede.

How am I supposed to slap a ho without an essential part of my balanced breakfast?

Nothing says sanitary like a parrot in the produce section…

“What are you wearing sexy?” -Cowboy boots. “Ya, that’s hot.” - Pink velour pants.
“Ya I like that.” - a little green baby girl hoodie. “Oh darn, that sounds sexy.”
- and I kinda look like Gallagher. “Oh ya…wait…what?”

Let’s run through my rock star list…. Mullet? - check; big sunglasses? - check; heart shaped tattoo?
- u know I love my mom; Cut jean shorts? - are there any other type of shorts? - wife beater tied at
the midriff - check. He is an official ROCK STAR!

I think I just sharted…

WTF?

Is that Rainbow Brite all grown up??

Is that a soccer ball? A map of the solar system? The structure of a sub-atomic particle?

I have absolutely no idea what to say…

Is that a gangster leotard?

Everyone loves the man in the yellow go-go boots!

Nice purse!

Do you see the flame shoes buddy? That means I will not think twice about karate chopping you
into the middle of next week!

AHH! I love the frozen food section… it tingles!

Umm… excuse me, sir…

At least the purse matches, right?

Rawr…

No, honey, it’s an ancient Egyptian symbol of prosperity, I swear!

I was wondering why you suddenly smelled better.

Every man has an NFL jersey AND pink short-shorts in their wardrobe, right?

I have the same outfit, only in red.

Just in case you had the urge…

Now all we need is Dr. Teeth and the Electric Mayhem for a reunion tour.

Yes, you are seeing that correctly. Old man + large, supple breast implants

September 26, 2009

Saturday

Well today was an extra long day to say the least.  It seemed like it went on forever not to mention I helped Misti move Ron's stuff and hurt my back again.  I knew she need my help and I also knew it was better if I lifted most of the heavy stuff because of  the rods in her back.  So I did what I had to do.  I hope that Ron will see what we have done for him.  I know he will see what Misti has done I just home that he will see what other people have done.
Football wasn't bad today.  Both teams won but they didn't play well at all.  Like Josh at least they both won.  At least no one got stomped on.  I am just about done watching the U play though.  I wish they would start playing more of the game.  It seems like they only play about a quater of the whole game.  If they would play the whole game the would amaze people.  I also think that the U needs to find a new quarter back.  The one that they are using now totally sucks!  He can't seem to throw the ball very well at all.  Then again neither can Hall.  He needs to have his eyes checked because he keeps throwing to the wrong team all the damn time.  All in all it was an ok football weekend.
I am totally depressed right now and I am not sure why.  Last night I just got really depressed and it didn't go away today.  I think it I just have alot going on right now and it has finally all gotten to me.  I think wrecking my car has gotten to me along with everything else that is going on right now in my life.  I think I may be trying to please to many people at once and since I don't feel like I am doing a good job at anything I am super depressed about it all.  I know I will be a little bit better once my car is done but god only knows when that will be.  I am also scared that if Ron gets out on the 1st that Misti won't have anymore time for me.  It is hard to know that once he gets out I will have to take my place on the back burner once again.  Oh well nothing I can do to change that.  If she is happy then that is all that matters I guess.
Hope everyone is having a good weekend!  Will post more tomorrow or Monday!

Advice

An Angel says, 'Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice.'
1. Pray
2. Go to bed on time..
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.
4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.
6. Simplify and unclutter your life.
7. Less is more.. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time.
11. Separate worries from concerns . If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety . If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.
13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.
14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.
15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.
16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.
17. Get enough rest.
18. Eat right.
19 Get organized so everything has its place.
20.. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life..
21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.
22. Every day, find time to be alone.
23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot.. Try to nip small problems in the bud.. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray.
24. Make friends with Godly people.
25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.
26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good 'Thank you Jesus .'
27. Laugh.
28. Laugh some more!
29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.
30.. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).
31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).
32. Sit on your ego.
33 Talk less; listen more.
34. Slow down.
35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.
36 Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before. GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU.
'If God is for us, who can be against us?'
(Romans 8:31)

Cute Puppy & Pig









A giant farm dog and a tiny piglet cuddle up as if they were family after the baby runt was dismissed by its own mother.
Surrogate mum Katjinga, an eight-year-old Rhodesian Ridgeback, took on motherly duties for grunter Paulinchen - a tiny pot-bellied pig - and seems to be taking the adoption in her stride. Lonely Paulinchen was luckily discovered moments from death and placed in the care of the dog who gladly accepted it as one of her own. Thankfully for the two-week old mini porker, Katjinga fell in love with her at first sight and saved her bacon.
Motherly love: Baby piglet feeds on its new surrogate mum
And the unlikely relationship has made the wrinkly piggy a genuine sausage dog. In these adorable images Paulinchen can even be seen trying to suckle from her gigantic new mum.
The two animals live together on a huge 20-acre farm in Hoerstel, Germany, where Katjinga's owners Roland Adam, 54, and his wife Edit, 44, a bank worker, keep a pair of breeding Vietnamese pigs.
Nose place like home: The baby piglet nuzzles up to its new mum
Property developer Roland found the weak and struggling piglet after she was abandoned by the rest of her family one evening after she was born.
He said: "The pigs run wild on our land and the sow had given birth to a litter of five in our forest
"I found Paulinchen all alone and when I lifted her up she was really cold.
Feeding time: Piglet's new canine mother has no problem providing milk for the youngster
"I felt sure some local foxes would have taken the little pig that very night so I took it into my house and gave her to Katjinga.
"She had just finished with a litter of her own, who are now 10 months, so I thought there was a chance she might take on the duties of looking after her.
"Katjinga is the best mother you can imagine. She immediately fell in love with the piggy. Straight away she started to clean it like it was one of her own puppies.
"Days later she started lactating again and giving milk for the piggy. She obviously regards it now as her own baby."
Mum of the year? Quite possibly.

Fun T-Shirt


Women

A middle-aged woman
Seemed sheepish as she
Visited her gynecologist.
'Come now,' coaxed the doctor,
'you've been seeing me for years!

There's nothing you can't tell me.'
'This one's kind of strange...'
'Let me be the judge of that,'

The doctor replied.
'Well,' she said, 'yesterday I went to the bathroom in the morning and heard a plink-plink-plink in the toilet and when I looked down, the water was full of pennies.'
'I see.'
'That afternoon I went to the bathroom again and, plink-plink-plink, there were nickels in the bowl.'

'That night,' she went on, 'I went again,

Plink-plin k-plink, and there were dimes and this morning there were quarters !

You've got to tell me what's wrong with me!,' she implored,
'I'm scared out of my wits!'
The gynecologist put a comforting

Hand on her shoulder.

'There, there, it's nothing to be scared about.'

(Ready for this?)

(I'm warning you.....)
'You're simply going through the change!

A Wedding Worth Remembering!






Her name is Katie Kirkpatrick, 21 yrs old. Next to her is her fiancé, Nick, 23.This picture was taken prior to their wedding January 11th, 2005. Katie has terminal cancer and spends hours in chemotherapy.Here Nick awaits while she finishes one of the sessions... Even in pain and dealing with her organs shutting down, with the help of morphine, Katie took care of every single part of the wedding planning.Her dress had to be adjusted several times due to Katie's constant weight loss. An expected guest was her oxygen tank. Katie had to use it during the ceremony and reception.The other couple in this picture is Nick's parents, very emotional with the wedding and of course to see their son marrying the girl he fell in love when he was an adolescent. Katie, in a wheel chair listening to her husband and friends singing to her. In the middle of the party, Katie had to rest for a bit and catch her breath. The pain does not allow her to stand for long period of time. Katie died 5 days after her wedding. To see a fragile woman dressed as a bride with a beautiful smile makes you think... happiness is always there within reach, no matter how long it lasts.....lets enjoy life and don't live a complicated life.
Life is too short.
Work as if it was your first day.
Forgive as soon as possible.
Love without boundaries.
Laugh without controland never stop smiling.
Please pray for those suffering from cancer.
We all have close to our heart.
Keep this going.Prayers are always answered.
Attitudes are contagious, Is yours worth catching?
 Dear God:The lady reading thisis beautiful, classy andstrong, and I love her.
Help her live her life tothe fullest.
Please promote her andcause her to excel above her expectations.
Help her shine in thedarkest places where it is impossible to love.
Protect her at alltimes, lift her up when she needs you the most, and let her know when she walks with you, She will always be safe.

September 25, 2009

Three Stages of a Man's Life


SINGLE



MARRIED

DIVORCED
ANY QUESTIONS?

A Very Long Week

Well this week has been one of the longest weeks I have had in a very long time.  It has seemed like nothing has been going right for me.  First the car accident and then the ticket and insurance problems.  Just when things were going good and I was going to be able to afford a lap top for me and I had to go and wreck my car.  I am really having a hard time staying positive right now with everything going on.  I am trying but I can’t seem to do it. 
I called today and got the amount of my ticket it is $120.  That isn’t as bad as I thought it would be but I am still wondering where the money is going to come from.  Guess I am just going to mail the U of U there 75 dollars and not pay any extra for awhile because of the ticket and the money to get my car out of the shop when it is done being fixed.  I know I will figure it out because I always do.  It is just getting hard to know it will be ok when every thing seems to be going wrong right now.
Chris starts his new job as a security officer tomorrow night.  He will be working from 10 to 8.  There are having him work 10 hours so that he will have someone to train him for 2 hours before they leave when there shift is done.  He is excited to start.  I hope that it all works out for him and that he keeps this job longer than he kept some of his other jobs.
Lachelle wrote me, Grandma, and Chris letters.  I was shocked that she wrote me.  I figured she would write Chris and maybe Grandma but I didn’t think that I would ever hear from her.  We didn’t really stop talking on the best of terms.  She was really nice in the letter and thanked me for yelling at her when she was doing something dumb.  I think I was one of the few people that called her on her bullshit.  I didn’t care what she did I was going to called her on it if it wasn’t right.  She knew it too.  She spent a lot of time being mad at me but I knew one day she would realize that I was helping her in the long run and that what I had to say was right.  I wrote her back and told her I would be her friend but I was still going to call her on her shit when she was doing something wrong.  So we will see if she will write me back or not.  I think she probably will.  I realized last night when I was reading her letter that I really did miss her and I miss all the good times we had.  I know we can have more if she wants to that is!

New Tag

What is your current obsession?
Heroes & Sims 3

What do you hate the most that everybody else seems to love?
People

What are you wearing today?
Jeans, green tank top, white short sleeve shirt and white shoes.

What's for dinner?
No idea!

What did you eat for your last meal?
A pear

What's the last thing you bought?
Prescriptions after my accident

What are you listening to right now?
97.1 ZHT

What do you think of the person that tagged you?
sweet

What is one of your hobbies?
Sims 3 Scrapbooking

What are 3 things that annoy you most?
Lying
Stupid People
Stupid questions

What is your favorite color?
Purple

What is your favorite piece of clothing in your wardrobe?
Don't have one right now.

What is your dream job?
Being a social worker that works with adoptions

Describe your personal style.
jeans & t-shirts

What are you going to do after this?
work work work

What inspires you?
My friend

Who was the last person you kissed?
josh

What are you currently reading?
Nothing

What delighted you most today?
Nothing yet.

What do you look for in a friend?
Kindness
Understanding
Respectful
Funny
Easy to talk to
Fun to be around

What is your favorite food?
Mashed Potatoes and Dr. Pepper

The rules: 1. Respond and rework; answer the questions on your blog, replace one question you dislike with a question of your invention, add one more question of your own.

September 24, 2009

Ark. player ends game with a noble gesture

Thamail Morgan took the kickoff and headed up the field. He was at the 20 ... 30 ... 40



He had been avoiding, dodging or just simply running through tacklers on the way. Football always had come easily for Morgan. This game was no different. By the time he hit midfield, only open space was ahead of him. The two-time Arkansas all-state selection was headed for a touchdown.
40 ... 30 ... 20
He glanced at the clock and saw the final seconds ticking away. He realized his team, Cave City, was on the way to a victory over Yellville-Summit, comfortably ahead, 34-16. He also realized two other things: This wasn't an ordinary game. And he wasn't the same Thamail Morgan.
When he reached the 2, he stopped. He took a few steps back and took a knee at the 5-yard line.


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Yelleville-Summit is a co-op program, a combination of two small rural schools in the northern part of Arkansas, near the Missouri border. Combining the schools allows them to field a football team. But even then, the squad is so small that coach Calvin Mallett has to bring extra uniforms in case a lineman gets hurt and someone needs to fill in.
On Sept. 11, before a game with Salem, the schools came together for a pep rally. Afterward, four of the players piled into the bed of Kymball Duffy's truck to head to his house for a pre-game meal.



According to Marion County Sheriff Roger Vickers, this is what happened next. As Duffy came over a hill, he quickly came upon a brush pile in the road. Duffy swerved into the other side of the road, attempting to avoid it. He lost control of the truck, sending it into a tumble.
The four players in the back - whose names are not being released - were thrown from the vehicle. Miraculously, three of the players in the back suffered only minor injuries. A fourth remains in the hospital but appears to be headed for recovery. Duffy was killed at the scene.
The game with Salem was cancelled.
The town held memorial services for Duffy, then decided they needed to continue the season as part of the healing process.
Before taking on Cave City, the most seriously injured of the four players in the back of the truck, spoke to the team from his hospital bed.
Players from Yellville-Summit and Cave City met at midfield before the game for a moment of remembrance. Players on both teams were a No. 72 decal - Duffy's number - on their helmet.
The game began and Cave City quickly scored. Minutes later, it scored again. And again. All hope for a storybook ending appeared lost.


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Thamail Morgan is the type of player who can dominate a high school game. On every play.
Last year, playing for Newport in a state playoff game against Heber Springs, he had 15 tackles, a sack and two forced fumbles on defense. He had 145 yards receiving and two touchdowns on offense.
He was coveted by most Division I programs in the South. Then it all changed.
In January, he violated an unspecified school rule that banned him from athletics for a year. Morgan would be eligible for basketball during his senior season but not football.
A year away from football would hurt his chances of gaining a scholarship, so - after considering a number of options - he transferred roughly 40 miles away to Cave City. His scholarship offers did not travel with him.
"Before I screwed up and got myself into trouble, I had some schools like Arkansas, Florida State, Ole Miss, and some other big schools looking at me,'' he said. "Now they are not looking at me, but I have no one to blame but myself for that. Hopefully I can get on someone's radar, even if it is a lower level D-1 or D-2 school."
Cave City coach Jon Bradley was willing to take a chance on Morgan. But only if he met certain conditions. He not only is required to attend extra weight lifting and conditioning exercises, he is required to participate in after-school activities with a local church and meet with a pastor on a regular basis for counseling.
"Everyone makes mistakes," Bradley said. "Thamail made some mistakes that did not allow him to play football anymore at Newport, and we knew what those mistakes were when he came here. I sat him down and talked to him, and let him know I was willing to give him a chance, but there were certain things that he would have to do in order to play for our program.
"So far, he has accomplished, and continues to do everything he has been asked to do, and then some. He has transitioned well and the kids here have accepted him. He is doing well in class, and is a leader on the football field and is a great athlete. We feel fortunate to have him."


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Bradley said he didn't get word the game with Yellville-Summit was going to be played until Tuesday. He then wondered all week how it would play out.



"I did not know what to expect due to the tragedy,'' he said. "You go into the game wanting to win, but then, you feel bad doing it. When we went up 21-0 in the first quarter, I just can't explain how I felt. The atmosphere was so weird. I just can't explain it." His players sensed it too.
"They told me on the sidelines that Yellville-Summit was not into it and they did not want to pad stats or run up the score,'' he said. "At that time, I started substituting our kids in and out of the game."
At this point, what the game represented became clear to Bradley.
"Everyone was glad that they were out there playing, getting some sort of return to normalcy,'' he said. "But everyone was going to be glad when it was over."
Yellville-Summit eventually scored in the second quarter, after Cave City had replaced many of its regulars. Bradley did not have a problem with that.
"I talked with Coach Mallet earlier in the week and before the game," Bradley said. "He let me know that if the game was to get out of hand, he simply did not have the players to substitute due to his numbers. So, I knew that when I pulled our guys, that there was a chance they would score."
It was 28-8 at halftime. Then 34-8 at the end of three quarters. Yelleville-Summit scored a second time with little time left to make it 34-16.
They had to kick off, sending a line drive that bounced its way to the back. To Morgan.
"We didn't even think they would kick off," Bradley said. "And we had him (Morgan) all the way back. It was our top return team, but we only have one return team."
What he did next surprised Bradley.
"I did not tell him to kneel down, he did it on his own," Bradley said. "I did not expect them to kick it to him. I figured they would kick away, because he has the ability to break away. I did not know that he was going to do what he did. He broke tackles, ran sideline to sideline, and got to the 2, and just stopped. That is when he backed up and took a knee on the 5-yard line."


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Morgan did not do this completely on his own.
"We were on the sidelines yelling for him not to score," Bradley said. "Some of the players on the field were saying it, too. But I'm not sure how much he could have heard all of it."
He heard it, Morgan admitted. But he didn't need to.
"Before the game, we as a team talked about being classy,'' he said. "We did not want to come out in a game like this and not show any class.
"As I was running, some of my teammates told me not to score, and I knew that scoring was not the right thing to do."
He was glad to be a part of what happened.
"I just want to thank my teammates for not only being classy all night, but pushing me to be classy as well,'' he said.
The gesture was well received.
"We weren't sure how gloomy they would be before the game,'' Morgan said. "They had gloom, but it was not as bad as we thought. We met before the game, and they told us that they did not want us to feel sorry for them, and they did not want us to back off just because of what happened. They wanted us to play them like we would have if Duffy has still been there with them, so we did.
"After the game, they complimented us, and even thanked us for the way that we played them. They are some really cool cats, and I wish them the best of luck with their healing process and the rest of their season. I hope they make the playoffs."


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What becomes of the rest of Morgan's football career remains to be seen.
He is getting interest from Arkansas State and Central Arkansas. Bigger schools such as Southern Miss and Texas Tech are starting to re-enter the picture.



At 6-1, 195 with a 4.5 time in the 40, there's no doubt he can play. It's the other issues that are a concern. Bradley is doing his best to make those go away. "I send things out to places and I tell schools, he's had some off the field issues, but if you're interested, please call me because it's not near as bad as what it sounds,'' Bradley said. "They assume his grades are bad or that he's done something really, really bad. Everyone deserves a second chance. He's doing the right thing."
Bradley said he and Morgan have had many talks, but none of them have been about behavior.
"He's not a discipline problem at all,'' Bradley said. "His grades are getting better. He'll have an opportunity to play. He's too good of an athlete and too good of a young man right now."
Bradley admitted he had concerns at the beginning but they have proven to be unfounded.
"I've never seen anything negative out of the kid,'' he said. "He's the most polite kid. He works hard. He knows he has one shot to get his education.
"He's showing people he's doing the right thing."
That was never more evident as when he kneeled down on the field.ARK
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