ARROGANT AMERICAN’S, MR. PRESIDENT?

Peter Heck - Guest Columnist - 4/14/2009 7:50:00 AM
As I was sitting in church waiting for the start of the service, my grandpa came walking towards me pointing his finger. No matter how old I get, and no matter how long he’s been out of the U.S. Navy, that’s still an intimidating sight. As he approached me, his voice quivered as he said, “We saved that continent twice…how dare my president apologize for this country’s arrogance.” My grandpa is right. Americans need not apologize to the world for their arrogance; rather, Americans should apologize to their forefathers for the arrogance of their president. Barack Obama’s first foreign trip as President of the United States has confirmed the naiveté so many of us feared during the election cycle. But worse than that, it has also demonstrated that our president suffers from either a complete misunderstanding of our heritage and history, or an utter contempt for it. Neither is excusable.

Garnering cheers from the French of all people, President Obama declared, “In America, there is a failure to appreciate Europe’s leading role in the world. Instead of celebrating your dynamic union and seeking to partner with you to meet common challenges, there have been times where America has shown arrogance and been dismissive, even derisive.” Consider that Obama spoke these words just 500 miles from the beaches of Normandy, where the sand is still stained with 65-year-old blood of “arrogant Americans.” Indeed, columnist Mark Whittington observes, “One should remind Mr. Obama and the Europeans how America has ‘shown arrogance’ by saving Europe from itself innumerable times in the 20th Century. World War I, World War II, the Cold War, and the wars in the Balkans were largely resolved by American blood, treasure, and leadership.” But all that appears lost on the president’s seemingly insatiable quest to mend fences he imagines have been tarnished by the bullish George W. Bush. If Obama wishes to continue trampling the presidential tradition of showing class to former office holders and publicly trash Bush for his own personal gain, so be it. But all Americans should make clear that no man – even if he is the president – will tarnish the legacy of those Americans who have gone before us. Ours is not a history of arrogance. It is a history of courage, self-sacrifice, and honor. When abusive monarchs repressed the masses, Americans resisted and overthrew them. When misguided policies led to the unjust oppression of fellow citizens, Americans rebelled and overturned them. When millions of impoverished and destitute wretches sought a new beginning, Americans threw open the door and welcomed them. When imperial dictators were on the march, Americans surrendered their lives to stop them. When communist thugs threatened world peace, Americans bled to defeat them. When an entire continent was overwhelmed with famine and hunger, Americans gave of themselves to sustain it. When terrorist madmen killed the innocent and subjugated millions, Americans led the fight to topple them. This is the legacy that generations of Americans have left. If President Obama seeks stronger relations with the world community, perhaps he should begin by reminding them of these very truths, rather than condemning his own countrymen on foreign shores. This “obsessive need to put down his own country,” has caused blogger James Lewis to call President Obama a “stunningly ignorant man” who has evidently never spoken to a concentration camp survivor, a Cuban refugee, a boat person from Vietnam, a Soviet dissident, or a survivor of Mao’s purges. Unfortunately, I can no longer bring myself to give Mr. Obama that benefit of the doubt. Not after looking at the pain in my grandpa’s eyes…a man who still carries shrapnel in his body from his service to this country. As a student and teacher of history, I recognize that America has made mistakes…plenty of them, in fact. But one of the great things about our people has been their courage and humility in admitting and correcting those mistakes. God willing, they will prove that willingness again in four years and correct the mistake that is the presidency of Barack Obama.

ALOT OF CUTE SAYINGS AND PICTURES

MY NEW PROJECT

MY NEW PROJECT IS SCRAPEBOOKING THE PICTURES OF THE CUBS THAT I HAVE!!! I SPENT MOST OF THE DAY GETTING PICTURES THAT I HAVE OFF OF MY PHONE AND UPLOADING THEM ONLINE TO GET THEM PRINTED. I ALSO BOUGHT A BOOK FOR THE PAGES. I AM SO EXCITED BECAUSE I LOVE TO SCRAPEBOOK AND IT WILL GIVE ME SOMETHING TO DO ON THE WEEKENDS. I CAN’T WAIT TO GO AND GET THE PICTURES!!!!!!!!

FRIDAY PARTYING OR . . .

WELL IT IS FRIDAY NIGHT AND I AM ALREADY HOME. I KNOW I FIND IT WEIRD TO I AM NEVER HOME THIS EARLY ON A FRIDAY, BUT IT IS MUCH NEEDED FOR ME. I AM REALLY NEED TO GET BETTER. I HAD A REALLY FUN NIGHT THOUGH. AFTER WE GOT OFF OF WORK WE WENT TO A COFFEE SHOP. IT WAS REALLY REALLY FUN UNTIL ONE OF THE WORKS MADE A DUMB COMMENT TO US. HE BASICALLY STEREOTYPED US. HE WAS PLAYING DIFFERENT MUSIC BUT IT WASN’T BAD ALL. I KIND OF LIKED IT. HE SAID I BET YOU TWO DON’T LIKE THIS MUSIC. I WAS LIKE WTF??? MISTI AND I JUST LOOKED AT EACH OTHER AND THEN GOT UP AND LEFT. AFTER THE COFFEE SHOP HER AND I WENT TO DINNER AT THE LONESTAR STEAK HOUSE IN SUGAR HOUSE. IT WAS REALLY REALLY YUMMY. WE BOTH HAD A DRINK AND ATE. WE STAYED THERE FOR AT LEAST 2 HOURS. YOU WOULD THINK THAT HER AND I NEVER SEE EACH OTHER BECAUSE WE CAN TALK FOR HOURS. WHAT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW IS THAT WE ARE TOGETHER ALL WEEK LONG AT WORK AND MOST WEEKENDS. ALL IN ALL IT WAS A GOOD FRIDAY NIGHT. IT WAS A GOOD CHANGE TO NOT GO TO A CLUB. I REALLY ENJOY JUST SITTING AT A COFFEE SHOP AND PLAY CARD GAMES LIKE WE DID TODAY.
I REALLY WISH THAT I COULD GET OVER WHATEVER I HAVE. IT IS SURE GETTING OLD BEING SICK ALL THE DAMN TIME. THIS AFTERNOON MY GLAND ON THE LEFT SIDE OF MY THROAT GOT REALLY SWOLLEN AND IT MADE MY EAR HURT. IT IS GETTING TO BE A JOKE THAT IS FOR SURE. I AM REALLY WONDERING HOW LONG I CAN BE SICK. IT IS FUNNY THAT I AM STILL SICK FROM MY LAST INFUSION AND THE NEXT INFUSION IS ONLY A WEEK AWAY. OH WELL IT HAS TO BE DONE AND I CAN’T COMPLAIN CAUSE I AM THE ONE THAT CHOOSE TO TAKE THE MEDICATION. I AM SURE I WILL GET BETTER AT SOME POINT. I WON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO WHEN THAT DAY HAPPENS BUT I AM SURE IT WILL BE NICE THAT IS FOR SURE.
JOSH CALLED ME TODAY AND SAID THAT THE PEOPLE FIXING HIS TRUCK SAID THAT THEY FOUND HIS WEDDING RING. HE THOUGHT THAT HE HAD LOST IT WHEN HE ROLLED HIS TRUCK. HE WAS HAPPY WHEN HE TOLD ME THAT. I WASN’T AS EXCITED THAT IS FOR SURE. I GUESS HE IS IN SPRINGFIELD TO GET HIS TRUCK. I AM NOT SURE WHAT HE IS GOING TO DO ABOUT HIS GIRLFRIEND BUT I GUESS THAT REALLY ISN’T MY BUSINESS. HE CAN DO WHATEVER WILL MAKE HIM HAPPY.

ELINORE

WELL IT HAS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I HAVE POSTED AND NOT MUCH HAS HAPPENED. ELINORE HAS A COLD NOW. I AM NOT SURE WHAT TO DO FOR HER. I FEEL SO BAD FOR HER. SHE KEEPS SNEEZING AND RUBBING HER NOSE WITH HER PAW. I TALKED TO GRANDMA ABOUT IT AND SHE SAID ALL I CAN DO IS WAIT IT OUT BECAUSE I DON’T HAVE THE MONEY TO TAKE HER BACK TO THE VET. IT COST ME 200 LAST WEEKEND TO TAKE THEM FOR THERE SHOTS AND YEARLY CHECK-UP. THEY COST ME SO MUCH IT IS A JOKE. OH WELL GUESS THAT COMES WITH HAVING CATS THAT ARE LIKE MY KIDS. THE NEXT EXPENSE WILL BE WHEN I HAVE SYLVIA SHAVED. I AM GOING TO HAVE THE DONE THE END OF MAY SO THAT SHE WILL HAVE SHORT HAIR FOR THE SUMMER TIME. I AM SURE SHE WILL HATE ME WHEN I DO IT BUT OH WELL SHE WILL BE CUTE. I WILL BE SURE TO POST PICTURES OF HER WHEN I GET IT DONE. SHE WILL BE SO CUTE!!!!
I AM STILL SICK WITH THIS DAMN COLD I HAVE HAD SINCE LAST MONTH. IT IS SURE GETTING OLD THAT IS FOR SURE. I JUST WANT TO BE NOT SICK. MY NEXT INFUSION IS IN A WEEK AND FOR THE FIRST TIME I AM NOT NERVOUS ABOUT IT. I AM ACTUALLY READY FOR IT. IT ISN’T SCARY ANYMORE. I ALSO HAVE A DOCTORS APPOINTMENT ON TUESDAY AND THAT WILL BE NICE BECAUSE I DON’T KNOW IF SHE EVEN KNOWS THAT I AM HAVING THE INFUSIONS AGAIN. I ALSO HAVE TO GET PILLS FOR THE HEADACHES I GET AFTER THE INFUSIONS. I WISH THAT I COULD BE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. I AM SO TIRED OF BEING SICK AND WHAT NOT. MY ANXIETY HAS BEEN REALLY REALLY BAD LATELY. I AM NOT SURE WHY BUT I HAVE REALLY BEEN STRUGGLING. IT IS GETTING HARD TO PUT A SMILE ON MY FACE EVERYDAY AND ACT LIKE NOTHING IS WRONG BUT IT IS SOMETHING I HAVE TO DO I GUESS. I HAVE TO ACT LIKE EVERYTHING IS ALRIGHT. I AM HOPING THAT ONE DAY THE SMILE I PUT ON WON’T BE FAKE AND I WILL TRUELY BE HAPPY WITH MY LIFE AND WHO I AM.
I AM BACK TO EATING EVERYTHING THAT SUCKS LOL. I AM BACK ON THE DIET. I SHOULDN’T SAY A DIET BECAUSE I HAVE TO EAT LIKE I AM NOW ALL THE TIME. IT SUCKS CAUSE THERE ISN’T MUCH I CAN REALLY EAT BUT IT HAS TO BE DONE SO THAT I WON’T BE THE FAT KID ANYMORE. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE FAT KID AND I AM TIRED OF IT. SO I AM GOING TO LOSE THE WEIGHT AND KEEP IT OFF THIS TIME.

I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT I CAN’T TRUST JOSH. I JUST CAN’T GET OVER WHAT HE DID OVER CHRISTMAS. I JUST NEED TO GET THE NERVE UP TO TELL HIM HOW I FEEL AND WHAT I AM FEELING. I KNOW SOMETHING WILL PRESENT ITSELF. SOME WAY SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN AND I WILL BE ABLE TO TELL HIM. I JUST KNOW THAT I WILL HURT HIM LIKE HE DID ME ON CHRISTMAS AND I HATE THAT I HAVE TO DO THAT TO HIM.
ELINORE IS FINALLY FEELING BETTER. I GUESS SHE SPENT THE WHOLE NIGHT OUTSIDE LAST NIGHT. GRANDMA PUT HER IN THE GARAGE AND FORGOT ABOUT HER. I DIDN’T EVEN NOTICE BECAUSE SHE WAS UNDER THE BED ALL DAY SO I JUST ASSUMED THAT SHE WAS UNDER THERE AGAIN LAST NIGHT. I AM SUCH A BAD MOM LOL. I HAVE DECIDED THAT WHEN I FINALLY MOVE OUT I WILL LEAVE SYLVIA BEHIND BECAUSE SHE LOVES IT THERE AND MY GRANDPA LOVES HER. I WILL BE SAD BUT I WILL DO IT FOR HER. I GUESS IT IS WHAT PARENTS HAVE TO DO AT TIMES.
MISTI AND I HAD A FALLING OUT ON FRIDAY AND I STILL FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. WE ARE OK NOW BUT WE JUST BOTH GOT TO EACH OTHER. NOW SAYING THAT IT ISN’T HARD FOR US TO PISS EACH OTHER OFF. WE KNOW THE BUTTONS TO PUSH AND WE BOTH ARE HOT HEADS AT TIMES. SO THIS HAPPENS ALL THE TIME, BUT LIKE ALWAYS GIVE IT A DAY OR TWO AND WE ARE BOTH OK. PART OF THE PROBLEM IS THE FACT THAT WE SPEND ALL DAY TOGETHER AND ON WEEKENDS. I THINK WE TEND TO SMOTHER EACH OTHER. SO WE SPENT THE WEEKEND APART AND IT HELPED US BOTH. I KNOW I MISSED HER AND THAT SHE MISSED ME BUT IT WAS MUCH NEEDED FOR ME. I WANT EVERYONE TO KNOW THAT I LOVE HER AND DESPITE EVERYTHING THAT GOES ON FROM TIME TO TIME SHE IS STILL MY BEST FRIEND AND ALWAYS WILL BE, AND I WILL STAND BEHIND ANY DECISION THAT SHE MAKES EVEN IF I DON’T AGREE WITH THEM.

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SATURDAY FUN

WELL TODAY WAS FILLED WITH FUN! I HAD TO TAKE THE CATS TO THE VET AND THAT WAS A TREAT TO SAY THE LEAST. IT IS ALWAYS FUN WHEN I HAVE TO TAKE BOTH CATS ANYWHERE ON MY OWN. ONE OF THEM ALWAYS HAS TO BE IN THE BOX AND IT ALWAYS ENDS UP BEING ELINORE BECAUSE SHE IS THE EASIEST ONE TO GET IN AND OUT OF THERE. I AM ALWAYS SCARED THE SYLVIA WILL HURT HERSELF WHILE SHE IS TRYING TO GET OUT OF THE BOX. EVERY TIME I PUT HER IN THE BOX SHE BREAKS HER CLAWS AND HURTS HER NOSE TRYING TO GET OUT OF IT. SO I FIGURE IT WILL BE EASIER TO JUST PUT ELINORE IN THERE AND NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT ONE OF THEM RUNNING AWAY. I TOOK THEM TO A NEW VET AND I REALLY LIKE THIS VET. HE WAS SUPER NICE AND VERY ATTENTIVE TO THE CUBS. HE IS MORE EXPENSIVE THAN THE OLD VET BUT I THINK IT IS TOTALLY WORTH IT. HE TOOK TIME TO LOOK AT THE CUBS AND EXAMINE THEM TO MAKE SURE ALL WAS WELL WITH THEM. THEY GAVE ELINORE BENADRYL IN HER MOUTH AND IT MADE HER FOAM AT THE MOUTH. IT WAS KIND OF FUNNY TO SEE. THE VET SAID IT WAS NORMAL FOR THEM TO DO THAT. HE SAID THAT BECAUSE IT TASTES SO BAD THEY ALL HAVE THAT REACTION TO IT. IT WAS INTERESTING TO SAY THE LEAST.
I TALKED TO JOSH ALOT TODAY AND IT MADE MY DAY. I WAS SO GLAD THAT I GOT TO TALK TO HIM. IT SEEMS LIKE FOREVER SINCE WE HAD ACTUAL CONVERSATIONS. IT MAKES ME REALIZE JUST HOW MUCH I MISS HIM. I WAS ABLE TO HIDE FROM IT WHEN WE DIDN’T TALK AND NOW I REALIZE HOW MUCH I HAVE MISSED HIM. I AM MORE CONFUSED THAN EVER NOW ABOUT WHAT I SHOULD DO. ALL I CAN DO IS TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME.

HAPPY EASTER

I WANTED TO WISH EVERYONE A HAPPY EASTER! I HOPE EVERYONE HAS A GREAT HOLIDAY AND REMEMBERS THE TRUE MEANING OF THE HOLIDAY.

JOSH WAS IN TOWN YESTERDAY AND WE WENT TO DINNER. I JUST DON’T KNOW THAT I COULD EVER TRUST HIM AGAIN. IT IS SO HARD BECAUSE I WISH AT TIMES THAT I COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND CHANGE ALOT OF THINGS BUT I CAN’T. I KNOW JOSH HAS FINALLY REALIZED WHAT I DID FOR HIM AND HE FEELS BAD THAT HE PROBABLY HAS LOST THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO HIM. I WISH WITH ALL OF ME THAT I COULD TRUST HIM AGAIN. I WANT TO BUT I DON’T KNOW IF I COULD AFTER ALL THAT HAS HAPPENED. IT IS AMAZING HOW TIME HAS CHANGED THE WAY I LOOK AT THINGS. I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD BE ABLE TO TURN DOWN HIM IF HE SAID HE WANTED TO WORK THINGS OUT. I AM AMAZED HOW TIME HAS CHANGED A LOT OF THINGS IN MY HEAD.
I ALSO HAVE TO THANK MISTI FOR STICKING AROUND THROUGH ALL OF MY CRAZINESS. I HAVE RATHER BITCHY LATELY AND SHE JUST TAKES IT IN STRIDE. I AM SO GLAD SHE IS IN MY LIFE SHE CAN MAKE ME SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY. I KNOW SHE IS HAVING A HARD TIME RIGHT NOW AND I JUST HOPE THAT I CAN HELP HER LIKE SHE HAS HELPED ME. SHE WILL NEVER KNOW THE PLACE SHE HAS IN HEART AND HOW MUCH SHE HAS HELPED ME STAY CLEAN AND SOBER LATELY. SO THANK YOU!!!!!!

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12 AMUSING EXCUESES FOR BEING LATE TO WORK

By Rachel Zupek, CareerBuilder.com writer
There is no worse feeling than waking up in the morning, rested from good night’s sleep, and glancing at the clock, only to do a double-take: You’re late!
For most people, knowing they’re running late for work strikes the fear of God within them and as a result, they move like there’s a
fire under their feet to get ready. They hustle, scramble, frantically throw things into a bag and are out the door to ensure a timely — though unkempt and graceless — arrival at the office.
But for a smaller group of people, knowing they are running late for work does absolutely nothing except stimulate their creative juices in order to make up the latest excuse as to why they are late for work — again.
Twenty percent of workers said they arrive late to work at least once a week, according to a February 2009
CareerBuilder.com survey of more than 8,000 workers. Twelve percent said they are late at least twice a week.
One-third (33 percent) of workers blamed traffic for their tardiness, while 24 percent said lack of sleep was the culprit. Ten percent of workers said getting their kids ready for
school or day care was the main reason they ran late in the morning. Other common reasons included public transportation, wardrobe issues or dealing with pets.
“While some employers tend to be more lenient with worker punctuality, 30 percent say they have terminated an employee for being late,” said Rosemary Haefner, vice president of
human resources for CareerBuilder.com. “Workers need to understand their company’s policies on tardiness and if they are late, make sure they openly communicate with their managers. Employers have heard every excuse in the book, so honesty is the best policy.”
Usimg your imaginationIf you’ve decided honesty is not the best policy for you, don’t try using any of the following excuses as the reason why you’re late — they’ve been heard before.
Here are 12 of the most outrageous excuses employees have heard for being late to work:

1. My heat was shut off so I had to stay home to keep my snake warm.
2. My husband thinks it’s funny to hide my car keys before he goes to work.
3. I walked into a spider web on the way out the door and couldn’t find the spider, so I had to go inside and shower again.
4. I got locked in my trunk by my son.
5. My left turn signal was out so I had to make all right turns to get to work.
6. A gurney fell out of an ambulance and delayed traffic.
7. I was attacked by a raccoon and had to stop by the hospital to make sure it wasn’t rabid.
8. I feel like I’m in everyone’s way if I show up on time.
9. My father didn’t wake me up.
10. A groundhog bit my bike tire and made it flat.
11. My driveway washed away in the rain last night.
12. I had to go to bingo.
Follow the cultureThe general rule is that you should be at your desk, working by your designated starting time. Technically, even if you’re at your desk “on time” but you’re still booting up your computer, saying your hellos and making a cup of coffee — you’re late.
Though you should always try your best to be punctual every morning, sometimes it’s safe to observe the company culture. If you arrive to work every morning to find all of your colleagues diligently working asyou’re shuffling in, your tardiness will probably stand out. On the other hand, if most people filter in at their own paces — within reason — an occasional late arrival will probably go unnoticed.
To be on the safe side, try your best to be on time for work every day. Your boss, co-workers and reputation will thank you for it.
Rachel Zupek is a writer and blogger for CareerBuilder.com. She researches and writes about job search strategy, career management, hiring trends and workplace issues.