8 Hair Myths, Busted
Hair myths circulate like urban legends, but which horror stories are just hype? Before you toss your favorite shampoo or swear off color, separate fact from fiction.

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1. True or False?

Frequent Trims Make Your Hair Grow Faster

FALSE. “Hair grows from the roots, not the tips,” says Michael Wright, senior research scientist at Nexxus Salon Hair Care. A trim removes split ends to prevent them from moving farther up the hair shaft, saving you from having to cut more to eliminate the damage. Keep your hair healthy in the first place with conditioning treatments and sun and heat protectors, says Saurabh Desai, principal scientist at Aveeno Nourish+.

2. True or False?

Brushing Your Hair Often Makes It Healthier

FALSE. Brushing your hair 100 times before bed won’t make your hair look any better. In fact, it might make it look worse. “Over-brushing can dull hair by destroying the cuticle, as well as causing split ends and breakage,” says Desai. And using the wrong tool could further harm hair. In general, plastic and metal bristles can weaken the hair cuticle and cause damage or static and flyaways, so consider switching to a gentle brush with natural boar bristles. “Stick to just enough brushing to keep your hair from becoming tangled — the brush should be able to move through the hair with ease,” says N.Y.C. celebrity hairstylist Miok. For some, that might mean as little as a few strokes just once or twice a day.

3. True or False?

Massaging Your Scalp Stimulates Hair Growth

FALSE. “Scalp massage can increase blood circulation, decrease stress and help distribute the scalp’s natural oils onto the hair,” says Desai. “All of this may lead to better functioning of the cells that are creating hair follicles, so your hair grows at its optimal rate — however, that rate will not increase.” On average, hair grows a half inch every month.

4. True or False?

Chemical Straighteners Change Your Texture Permanently

FALSE. “As hair grows, your natural texture returns,” says celebrity hairstylist Serge Normant at N.Y.C.’s John Frieda Salon. After a straightening treatment, the visible hair will be permanently altered, but the chemical process can’t penetrate your roots. Likewise, daily blowout devotees might think they’ve unkinked their curls for good because hair starts to seem straighter over time, but what they’re actually seeing is damaged hair that has lost texture, not a permanent change.

5. True or False?

Wearing a Ponytail in the Same Area Can Give You a Bald Spot

TRUE. “The effect is called traction alopecia. The constant tugging by a tight band can scar hair follicles and cause them to stop growing new hair,” says Doris Day, a dermatologist in N.Y.C. She suggests switching pony positions daily to alleviate tension. Tie back hair with a soft elastic band and wrap the ponytail as loosely as possible, suggests Desai. It’s not just ponytails that can be the culprit, either — headbands, braids and barrettes may result in similar damage when repeatedly worn in the same spot.

6. True or False?

A Cold Rinse Adds Shine and Tames Frizz

TRUE. A blast of cold water at the end of your shower can make hair appear shinier because it temporarily helps the cuticle flatten down onto the hair shaft, explains Desai. But the results might not last if you don’t properly dry your hair. Make sure the cuticle remains flat by applying a deep conditioner or silicone-based product to seal it.

7. True or False?

Hair Can Become Immune to Shampoo

FALSE. Shampoo will always do its job: clean. So why does it seem like your favorite bottle suddenly stops working? “Shampoo contains ingredients that condition and provide styling benefits, but it can also leave a residue that builds up,” says Desai. If you start to notice dullness, use a clarifying shampoo (try Nexxus Aloe Rid Gentle clarifying shampoo, $11; at drugstores) once or twice a month to remove accumulated product — any more often and you could strip hair of its healthy natural oils.

8. True or False?

Coloring Can Change Your Hair’s Texture

TRUE. Temporarily, of course — but sometimes for the better. Permanent color removes the protective layer on your hair and lifts the cuticles so dyes are able to penetrate, says Desai, while semipermanent dye deposits color onto hair and is less harsh. Both methods have benefits, says N.Y.C. trichologist David H. Kingsley: “Color can swell the hair shaft and give it body.” The change is especially noticeable on women with fine or thinning hair, as well as those with gray roots.

It’s Your Call … Is Coloring Hair During Pregnancy Dangerous?Check with your doctor first, especially if you have allergies, but “it’s probably not harmful. However, you should wait until the second half of your pregnancy when the baby is fully formed,” says Eileen Krim of Northern Obstetrics and Gynecology in North Hills, N.Y. Can’t go another second without a color fix? Krim recommends highlights “because they start a quarter inch from the scalp, where the dye isn’t being absorbed into the body.” If you’re getting your hair professionally colored, “schedule the appointment for when the salon is less crowded,” she says. “Definitely stay away from peak hours on Saturday afternoon to avoid inhaling fumes.” If you choose to color at home, wait until the third trimester. “Work in a well-ventilated area and wear gloves,” Krim says. Look for dyes that have low or no ammonia, and don’t assume that “natural” dyes are chemical-free — often these contain the same compounds found in regular hair color.- Alonna Friedman


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CONFUSED

I AM SO CONFUSED ANYMORE. I HAVE ISOLATED MYSELF AND THE CONFUSION IS JUST GETTING WORSE. IT SEEMS THAT NO MATTER WHAT I DO OR SAY I END UP HURTING SOMEONE. I HAVE DECIDED THAT MAYBE I SHOULD BE SINGLE AND NOT BRING PEOPLE INTO MY LIFE. I AM THINKING BEING SINGLE IS GOING TO BE THE ONLY WAY THAT I WON’T GET HURT ANYMORE. I HAVE DECIDED THAT JOSH AND I WILL NEVER WORK OUT EVEN THOUGH I CAN’T STOP LOVING HIM. HE NEEDS TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO ISN’T CRAZY LIKE I AM. MAYBE IN TIME THE RIGHT GUY WILL COME ALONG BUT I AM NOT GOING TO COUNT ON IT. I AM DONE TRYING TO FIND THE GUY FOR ME. PEOPLE SAY THAT HE WILL COME ALONG WHEN I AM NOT LOOKING FOR HIM. SO I AM NO LONGER LOOKING FOR HIM.
I HAVE REALIZED THAT I CAN’T TRUST MANY PEOPLE. I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO TRUST PEOPLE MORE BUT IT WAS CONFIRMED TO ME THIS WEEKEND THAT I SHOULDN’T TRUST PEOPLE. I WAS ONCE AGAIN SOLD OUT BY SOMEONE I THOUGHT WAS MY FRIEND AND IN THE END HE TOLD THE ONE PERSON IN MY LIFE THINGS THAT I DIDN’T WANT THEM TO KNOW. BUT WHAT ELSE SHOULD I HAVE EXPECTED. I KNOW WHY HE DID WHAT HE DID BUT IT DOESN’T MAKE IT ANY EASIER FOR ME.
THIS POST WAS JUST ME RAMBLING ABOUT THINGS THAT I NEEDED TO GET OFF MY CHEST.

A FATHERS DAY POST!

Searching for the Origin of Father’s Day
by Mike Krumboltz

Searchers have a question they’d like answered: Who started Father’s Day? Who do they have to thank for the mandatory bonding time they’re spending with dear ol’ dad this weekend? Lookups on “father’s day origin” and “who started father’s day” inspired us to investigate. The results of our research shook us to our very core.
OK, maybe not to our core, exactly. But the story of how Father’s Day came to be is still pretty interesting. A blog from a Detroit church explains that most historians credit a woman named Sonora Smart Dodd with creating the holiday. Ms. Smart Dodd was “inspired by her father, a widower and Civil War veteran named William Jackson Smart.” She wanted to do something to honor his memory while paying respect to all fathers.
Clearly she was a woman with a plan. Alas, not everybody agreed with her pleas to “give it up for the papas” (our words, not hers). In fact, Ms. Smart Dodd’s proposal was often mocked when it first made the rounds. Folks felt it unnecessary. And the all-male United States Congress felt that having a holiday for fathers might look like they were trying to give themselves “a pat on the back.”
Additionally, many just plain didn’t want the holiday. An article from Inspiration Line explains that, according to an article in The Spokesman-Review, “one group of men conventioneers laughed and said they didn’t want a Father’s Day. A National Fishing Day would be better, they told her.”
Though many scoffed, the holiday was eventually accepted. In 1910, the first local Father’s Day was held. It wasn’t until 1924 that President Calvin Coolidge “made it a national event.” Then, in 1966, President Johnson signed a proclamation declaring the third Sunday of June as Father’s Day. President Nixon made it law in 1972.
It’s hard to imagine a time when the idea of Father’s Day was mocked and dismissed as ridiculous. If it weren’t for the tenacity of a grateful daughter, it may never have come to pass.

TV

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WELL TODAY GRANDPA DECIDED TO ORDER THE COUPON SO THAT I CAN GET TV IN MY ROOM!!!! I AM SUPER EXCITED! AFTER THE COUPON GETS HERE ALL I HAVE TO DO IS GO PICK UP THE BOX AND GET AN ANTENNA AND THEN I CAN WATCH SOMETHING OTHER THAN MOVIES ALL THE TIME. I AM HAPPY THAT I CAN WATCH MARK KOBEL AT NIGHT NOW LOL.

COOL ARTICLE THAT I FOUND

Love Lessons from Dad
Singles share the best love advice their dads have given…maybe it’ll work for you, too!

In honor of Father’s Day, we asked daters around the country for tried and true dad’s advice. Here’s what they told us:

Wait for Mr. Amazing
“Never ever settle—ever. My dad insisted that it’s better to wait around for something great than to waste your time with cheap crap!”—Catherine Cantave, Silver Spring, MD

Beware the b-word
“My father was very adamant about me never being with a guy who didn’t respect women. (I wasn’t even allowed to watch Married With Children growing up, because of the way men on the show treat women.) He also can’t stand the word b*tch, since it’s degrading. This has opened up my eyes to the kind of guys who use the term: Even when guys use it jokingly, it shows a lack of respect, and I now avoid these men.” —Erika Shantz, New York, NY

Tell it like it is
“When I was 16, I was all upset because I wanted to break up with my girlfriend, but was wracked with guilt over it. My father told me, ‘You’re not doing her any favors by pretending everything is OK. The nicest thing you can ever do is be honest with someone.’ I’ve followed that advice since then and am really grateful for it.” —Daniel Beggan, Austin, TX

See with your heart
“My dad quotes Confucius to me! He told me, ‘Beauty comes out of lovers’ views,’ which I take to mean that when you see the love of your life, all you ever see is beauty, always.” —Chunbai Zhang, Boston, MA

Give him a break
“My dad — a theologian and older parent — taught me that if a guy is brave enough to ask you out, and he doesn’t seem like a total con, he deserves one date, even if it’s just coffee and a walk around the block.” —Sarah Cunningham, New York, NY

Be a kiss-up
“When I was in high school, my dad told me to bring flowers to my date’s mother when I was picking a girl up for the first time. It’s a little cheesy, but it worked. I still bring a little something the first time I visit a girl’s parents’ home.” —John Wiseman, Tulsa, OK

Follow the golden rule
“My dad told me to never be too available; instead, make him work to get someone as great as me.” —Elizabeth Harp, Baltimore, MD

Hang in there
“My dad told me that dating is like fishing: You have to cast your line several times before you’ll get a bite. That helps me from getting discouraged.” —Johnny Palmer, Burlington, VT

Date up
“My dad taught me that I should date a man with an education and one who has more experience than I have—someone who has seen the world and has already dated plenty of women. The reason? That way, when he finds you, he’ll know he’s got a good catch!” —Anne Meesriyong, DeKalb, IL

Watch out for weasels
“My dad told me that, ‘If a guy offers to show you the view from his apartment or his incredible fish tank, there likely isn’t either.’ He also instilled in me that I shouldn’t waste my time on someone who doesn’t open the door for me or offer to pay on the first date.” —Lindsay Craig, Atlanta, GA

Don’t work at love
“My father once told me, ‘A relationship should never be a lot of work.’ When people would kvetch about their ‘work-intensive’ relationships, my father would shake his head and say, ‘My relationship has never been work.’ I suspect that if one is, I should run the other way.” —Lillie Marshall, Boston, MA

Have escape money
“My dad tells me to make sure that I always have money in my pocket when I’m going on a date. He’s old-school and believes in a woman being treated like a queen and expects nothing short of that for his daughters. But for those times when you can’t stand to stay out with a dud any longer, he says you have to be able to pay for your meal — and a cab ride if you need it — so you can escape.” —Suzan Barnett, Meriden, CT

THE LATEST INFUSION

MY LAST INFUSION WAS ON FRIDAY AND IT DIDN’T GO WELL AT ALL. IT WAS LIKE THE FIRST ONE AND THAT SUCKED ROYALLY. I WAS SUPPOSED TO GO INTO WORK AFTER I GOT DONE WITH IT BUT IT WAS ALL I COULD DO TO DRIVE HOME WITH OUT PASSING OUT. I HAVE SINCE SPENT THE ENTIRE WEEKEND IN BED AND I AM STILL FEELING LIKE CRAP. I HOPE I AM FEELING BETTER BY MONDAY!

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